OCD Toolboxes

January 1, 2013 at 10:28 pm 11 comments

I see the term “OCD toolbox” being used quite a bit these days. I like it. Just as personifying OCD allows us to view the disorder as separate from the OCD sufferer, the OCD toolbox gives us a way to group together everything that might be helpful in fighting obsessive-compulsive disorder. OCD is often complicated, so I’m for anything that helps sufferers and their loved ones better understand, and battle, the disorder.

So what goes into an OCD toolbox? For young children, actual objects might be helpful. Stress balls, as well as favorite toys, puzzles, and stuffed animals, may provide comfort, or at the very least a distraction, when OCD is taking hold. Older children, teens, and adults might benefit from listening to their favorite CD’s, reviewing helpful books on dealing with OCD, or reading inspirational poems. For some, medication will be in their toolbox.

In addition to these concrete items, healthy eating, exercising, meditation, and getting enough sleep are important elements of the OCD toolbox. And while everyone’s toolbox will be different, the most important components, in my opinion, are proper therapy and a competent therapist. Exposure Response Prevention Therapy is the frontline treatment for OCD and an essential part of all OCD toolboxes.

While OCD toolboxes can overflow with helpful items, it’s extremely difficult for OCD sufferers to do all the necessary “repairs” on their own, and they shouldn’t have to.  Blogs, forums, and support groups can be valuable, but don’t compare to the support, acceptance, and love of family and friends. As I’ve mentioned many times before, those of us who do not suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder cannot truly understand how torturous and debilitating it can be. We need to acknowledge the severity of this disorder and learn everything we can about it so that we can be  powerful additions to our loved one’s OCD toolboxes. It could make all the difference in the world.

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  • 1. jackieleasommers  |  January 1, 2013 at 10:35 pm

    So good, so true. I feel so blessed to have found a competent cognitive-behavioral therapist, but I know that not everyone is so lucky. I wonder if there is some kind of preliminary checklist out there that sufferers can use to “screen” potential therapists.

    I felt terrible that one of my OCD friends went to a therapist who said he knew about CBT … but my friend ended up knowing more about CBT than the therapist did, just from reading my blog and my story.

    Have you heard of anything like that, Janet? Screening questions? If not, maybe I should try to come up with something.

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    • 2. ocdtalk  |  January 1, 2013 at 11:00 pm

      You are right, Jackie. Not everyone is so lucky. The IOCDF has a list of questions to ask when searching for a therapist:

      http://www.ocfoundation.org/treatment_providers.aspx

      I hope your friend finds help!

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      • 3. jackieleasommers  |  January 1, 2013 at 11:03 pm

        He’s a college student, so he decided to wait till his summer break and go to MY therapist. SO GOOD!

  • 4. Tina Fariss Barbour  |  January 2, 2013 at 9:56 am

    Great post, Janet. You list a lot of good things, especially ERP and a competent therapist, that can fit into the toolbox. And thanks for mentioning the importance of strong support from family and friends. It can mean the world.

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    • 5. ocdtalk  |  January 2, 2013 at 2:48 pm

      Thanks, Tina. I agree….support from loved ones is so important.

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  • 6. Katherine Gordy Levine  |  January 2, 2013 at 2:24 pm

    Pinned you. Thank you for all the good you do, including supporting my efforts to share and care.

    http://pinterest.com/pin/147141112797339726/

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  • 7. ocdtalk  |  January 2, 2013 at 2:49 pm

    Thank YOU, Katherine!

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  • 8. 71º & Sunny  |  January 3, 2013 at 1:06 pm

    I love this post, Janet!!! I happen to like stress toys to squeeze when I’m stressed. Believe it or not (you’re gonna think I’m crazy!!) I actually like stuffed animals too. ha ha I’m a very touchy/feely type of person, and when my kitty doesn’t want to be hugged, sometimes I will hug a stuffed animal! OK – I’ve just officially announced my craziness! But hey, it helps with stress. And you are so right – there are many different things in each person’s tool box, but the core needs to be CBT/ERP.

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  • 9. ocdtalk  |  January 3, 2013 at 2:57 pm

    You’re so funny, Sunny. Of course I don’t think you’re crazy….I think you’re honest! You’ll see… Now all of the closet stuffed animal huggers will come forward to thank you. Hey, if hugging stuffed animals helps with stress, why not? You could be doing a lot worse things!

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  • 10. Abigail  |  January 3, 2013 at 7:30 pm

    I like how you listed some of the things in a toolbox, particularly things for helping the toolbox owner calm down, like stress toys. I have a rubber Koala squishy toy in my purse for when I get anxious and have to sit through a speech or something… My counselor gave me a sea shell to serve the same purpose, and it is significantly less embarrising and I don’t feel like I have to hide it from the pastor like I did my brilliant green koala. But anyway, I forgot that calming myself down and tools to do that were part of my toolkit; I tend to focus on ERP and on the tools for going on an offensive attack against OCD when I think about toolkits, but all of it is important.

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  • 11. ocdtalk  |  January 3, 2013 at 9:50 pm

    I agree, Abigail; all the toolkit items are important. And I’d sure like to see that brilliant green koala of yours….it sounds awesome :)

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